Three weeks post op!  Swelling is starting to go down a bit. I have made an interesting discovery. If i wear briefs i dont leak but if i wear boxers i leak a ton. Idk why that is maybe had to do with how dick is supported. Ive been told by pelvic floor pt to start using a vibe to play so i can regain my ability to have good orgasms but so far thats not a problem. I was also told to start massaging the nerves and scar tissue on either side of my vaginectomy site cause when they do the vaginectomy the surgery tends to irritate and sometimes paralyze the nerve that runs through the pelivis which is the main nerve responsible for bowel and bladder control and pain. She said many post op people feel little to no pain after surgery and it isnt til like a year out that they start to have problems with that nerve.  She calls it being proactive rather than reactive. And sorry if you dont like the terms but the hood of my old tdick i guess would now be my foreskin has to be pulled back and remain pulled back for at least 30-40 seconds a day to not only clean but to make it more malleable for second stage and to make it easier to stand to pee. Ive only practiced standing to pee a handful of times when showering and notice my stream is extremely strong but towards the end it starts to aim more downward and fall between my legs. The pelvic floor pt said with cis males their muscles to stand to pee are more circular shaped and the cis women its oval/ onion shaped and to gently squeeze that muscle toward the end of my urination to get the stream more outward at the end. Its doesn't take a big squeeze and i was told my pelvic muscles are super strong and by squeezing to hard it will actually cut off my stream. Which through experimentation is totally correct. Surgeon and pevic pt say i should be able to stp with my dick but not through my fly til stage two. Im starting to get used to my new dick as before when i was immediately post op i still felt very dysphoric. I feels and acts more like a dick everyday but too me still looks small. I think once i have stage two in july itll be better. My surgeon said she can move it more up by about 1-2 cm which would be great. Pt measured my jimmy and said to obtain a 2 inch by 9 inch penis pump and that i should be able to start pumping by month three. I go back on the 27 of dec for my 6 week follow up to see surgeon and pelvic to learn more scar massage techniques and to be cleared for full duty at work with an expected return date of jan 1 2025 one day shy of seven weeks post op.